totally agree with Oz here.
How can you trust her with your safety???
The fact of the matter also was that she was mullered. 1st rule..never do anything when the other party has had a few to drink...regardless whether they are in your company or not.
and personally? I think you were correct in disobeying her....in these circumstances. Sometimes a sub has to make a dessission at the spur of the momnt...regarding their own safety. and you made th right one.
smiles
cg