i've done it once, by myself using a vibe. i just happened to have a mirror positioned so i could watch, having no idea i was gonna squirt, so that was kinda a bonus. my Man wants me to do it so bad & he gets me right there but i've never been able to get all the way. But i'm kinda like naughtylittleme. i have trouble having an orgasm at all. i can w/ a vibe on my clit almost any time but hardly ever w/ any other stimulation. He gives the best oral i've ever had & He works magic on my g-spot. He & i have the most open communication & i'm not embarassed or anything so i dunno why "it" eludes me. i'm mid 40's & have been around in my day so you woulda thought i'd figured out how it works by now.