an update to smile for.

Today Marks one year of WV's submission.
I have been very happy with her gift this whole past year.
I have often wondered how come I didn't seek it earlier and she has asked often how come I didn't snatch her into it sooner.
The timing was all wrong before.
She had to be ready..
She had to be willing...
And mosty she had to want..
Yes .. she had to know she wanted what she did not have.

We have often discussed this during the last year, and often
we have watched others come and go... change partners etc.
Perhaps because we already had a good marriage with few problems if any to mention is the reason things have moved for us nicely.
Not to say there have not been problems but problems are part of life.
There is no "Cinderella syndrome" going on here. smiles.
I do not know of any other two that are as real world as we are with what we do.
I have attempted numerous online relationships .. as I am poly...
but.. i have not found the match that endures yet.
I think it to be the most difficult if one is serious, honest and truthful.
perhaps there is no one for me/us. (us because we are searching for a triad member but it's not looking good.)

anyways.... There's not much we have not delved into..
We've both delved into and learned that neither of us are much into heavy Sadism and masochism but that doesn't mean that bondage and impact tools are not necessary.
I will never have unused chains or ropes... and my hand, paddles and floggers are guaranteed to never collect dust. * chuckles insanely *

WV has been busy and rarely gets online anymore.. usually just to read what I need to show her. ( I keep a her very busy lil girl. <weg> )