Vixen's Submissiveness

[rach]

Beautiful words from both of you

[Guest 91108]

Thanks rach.

[Echoes]

This is beautiful, thank you both for sharing so much!

~hugs~

[Guest 91108]

an update to smile for.

Today Marks one year of WV's submission.
I have been very happy with her gift this whole past year.
I have often wondered how come I didn't seek it earlier and she has asked often how come I didn't snatch her into it sooner.
The timing was all wrong before.
She had to be ready..
She had to be willing...
And mosty she had to want..
Yes .. she had to know she wanted what she did not have.

We have often discussed this during the last year, and often
we have watched others come and go... change partners etc.
Perhaps because we already had a good marriage with few problems if any to mention is the reason things have moved for us nicely.
Not to say there have not been problems but problems are part of life.
There is no "Cinderella syndrome" going on here. smiles.
I do not know of any other two that are as real world as we are with what we do.
I have attempted numerous online relationships .. as I am poly...
but.. i have not found the match that endures yet.
I think it to be the most difficult if one is serious, honest and truthful.
perhaps there is no one for me/us. (us because we are searching for a triad member but it's not looking good.)

anyways.... There's not much we have not delved into..
We've both delved into and learned that neither of us are much into heavy Sadism and masochism but that doesn't mean that bondage and impact tools are not necessary.
I will never have unused chains or ropes... and my hand, paddles and floggers are guaranteed to never collect dust. * chuckles insanely *

WV has been busy and rarely gets online anymore.. usually just to read what I need to show her. ( I keep a her very busy lil girl. <weg> )

[MajesticFae]

Congrats to you both, love. *hugs*

[Mishka]

A belated happy anniversary to you two.

[Silus]

Once again you two are very lucky! This may be a stupid question, but on page 5 of this thread you stated you were looking for another live in....has anything progressed with that?

[Guest 91108]

Once again you two are very lucky! This may be a stupid question, but on page 5 of this thread you stated you were looking for another live in....has anything progressed with that?

Yes, I feel we are very lucky. We trod on through most drama that others create. I've had some bunglers too.
Yes, we are still looking for triad member if it ever happens. But.. that doesn't look hopeful. Most who contact me about it have this grand illusion thing going on.. they're not thinking about it in a real situation.
So I don't mention it much. Still have not taken another online sub.. as if i take another she will have to know I expect it to mesh with real life. period.

[sisterhoney61 {RW}]

*wavies to her fellow South Carolinian* Congratulations to Y/you both, Sir. I am glad that Y/you have found what Y/you both want and need. It's a very beautiful thing when that happens. I have been with my Master for a long time now and O/our relationship continues to grow and develop even after all these years. Blessings to You and your one, Sir.

[Guest 91108]

Couple updates due.
We had a 10 year anniversary back in June.
( yeah I've not been posting much here lately )
Still haven't taken anyone online or mix -- Though I am considering one;
name to come later if it works out.

hrm.. we just moving along I reckon..
enjoying ourselves.

~ Wolf

[Guest 91108]

Better late than not at all but....

Rads is mine . Aug 14 2008, 8:47 am
Today is the official first day that I have accepted Radiance as mine.
My being jaded , this was a difficult obstacle for me to overcome.
Past relationships .. Of many kinds and levels have tainted my thoughts on them
We have known each other for several years, only recently conversing more often.
Getting to know each other more.

I have found her to be compassionate, understanding , warm? and we have very similar needs and experiences.
We are the same age.. And though they must be explored more.. I think we have similar interests so perhaps we are very in synch with each other.

I look forward to the time we will share with each other as an only online relationship..
It is doubtful we shall meet due to our situations? I had been wanting someone with whom a mix was possible. But I need her now. And I feel she needs me.
Wants even.

She has brought a smile back to me when she appears. I have needed that kind of smile.
She has shown me that she wishes to please, and give without my having to be concerned or worried on what is to come as I have done in the past.

She will be filling a need that I have and time that I have to give someone who will be appreciative of that time and responsibility. I wish to show her that someone can be nice and still be Dominant with her. Watch over her.. Help her in the ways which I am able.

I have a strong need to have someone with whom I can be both open and Dominant.. Someone who understands that this need is more than just a mere physical craving.. It's a mental desire. Something needed for me to function . It's not about being sadistic or being sexual.. Those are fringe benefits. Chuckles. She Will be This person.

I shall end for now with :

Radiance , You are Mine.
I'm proud to have you.
~ Wolf.

[Guest 91108]

well easy come easy go.
Radiance and I split ways... just now posting this.. sorry it's rather late.....