Slave Rule #12: i must always give thanks to my Master for all i am given immediately after receiving what He has given me, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Him.

I must admit that I've gotten somewhat lax about saying "thank you." I usually remember to say it, though. I think I should get back in the habit of saying it all the time. It really helps one to remember not to take someone for granted. It's easy to forget that all the nice things one does for another are a way of showing love, appreciation and respect. The least one can do in return is acknowledge it by giving thanks.

Daddy tries to lead by example. I always find it a bit odd when he thanks me for coming over and spending time with him. *smiles* It makes me feel as if I've provided "services" instead of just doing what normal couples do. I suppose I don't necessarily have to drive an hour to see him, but the truth of the matter is that I'm always happy when he asks me if I want to come over. Do I want to come over? pppfffttt What?!? Are you fucking kidding me?!? HELL YEAH!!! *lol* Naturally, my answer is a bit more...um....like..."Of course, Daddy! I'd love to see you." *ggls*

The real question, though, is why it's so hard for me to both give and receive thanks. I guess it's because I find it a humbling experience either way and, therefore, a bit uncomfortable. People who know me are aware that I can't take a compliment. I also don't give them out unless I really mean it. It's all in the way I was raised. Praise wasn't given for something you were "supposed" to do anyway, like get good grades, graduate, etc. If it was a job well done, you didn't hear anything much about it, but if you ever fucked up....well....that was an arse of a different color.....horse, I mean...you know what I mean, damn it!