As I said, I am still new to the scene, but I choose not to have a safeword. For me, safewords remove a good deal of the power exchange. If I'm going to give him power over me, then it's going to be real. I can ask him to stop, but I have chosen to give him the final say.

Back to topic... is it sexy for me to be unsettled? If so, why? I'm curious.