If you suck at the whole submissive thing, I suck at it too The problem with decisions is that I always have the feeling that I picked the wrong thing...he says "You choose" and I go bananas. I choose A, then get the feeling that I should have chosen B, so I say let's change that to B and he looks annoyed, then I start ranting "Why don't you just tell me what you want?" and he says "You choose!" and I start all over again, and get stuck with an option C neither of us is happy with. It's simple things, really, like "Red or White Wine" (thank heaven for rosé!), or epic decisions as "fish or chicken" (why not beef? maybe turkey? or maybe something vegetarian after all? decisions, decisions, decisions!)

I'm plappering constantly. I'm really talkative. Ask me what I want, and I'm dumbfounded and get out a "I don't know" at best. Doesn't mean that I NEVER know, it just won't come out. So, I can really sympathise...on the other hand, umm, you could sell that as being extra cute and charming, can't you?