New Year's Resolution: 128 Slave Rules

[Flaming_Redhead]

Red I don´t think so. The whole Hair thing is like this: it seems to be important to you, to be a represantation of your personality (which of course is also held up by the way you write here and many other things). Still you give in to your daddy... I think giving in concerning things that are important for you, going through changes that are hard for you is sure enough submissive. that you do it even if it´s not easy... you may well show how hard it is..
Things you don´t care for could easily be changed if it pleased him but were in themself not as strong a sign of your submission... so if it´s perhaps as unimportant to him as it is to you - why should he ask for it??
...just my thinking...

That makes sense to me. I was just thinking that it would have been easier if he'd started out with some smaller things to get me used to doing something just because he wants me to.

just the same about you beeing able to think for yourself.. where lay the submission in a person not able to decide for him/herself if he/she left all decisions to her partner? it would be pure necessity. Whereas a person totally able to care/think/live for him/herself who conciously decides to hand over certain rights , for example the right to decide the haircolor, would for me certainly be submissive, wether or not she struggles with her own decicions from time to time.

I totally agree that it's submissive to let him take away the decisions that I'm perfectly willing and able to make for myself.

If you suck at the whole submissive thing, I suck at it too The problem with decisions is that I always have the feeling that I picked the wrong thing...he says "You choose" and I go bananas. I choose A, then get the feeling that I should have chosen B, so I say let's change that to B and he looks annoyed, then I start ranting "Why don't you just tell me what you want?" and he says "You choose!" and I start all over again, and get stuck with an option C neither of us is happy with. It's simple things, really, like "Red or White Wine" (thank heaven for rosé!), or epic decisions as "fish or chicken" (why not beef? maybe turkey? or maybe something vegetarian after all? decisions, decisions, decisions!)

I'm plappering constantly. I'm really talkative. Ask me what I want, and I'm dumbfounded and get out a "I don't know" at best. Doesn't mean that I NEVER know, it just won't come out. So, I can really sympathise...on the other hand, umm, you could sell that as being extra cute and charming, can't you?

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You sound exactly like me! I'll fudge on the answer by asking, "What are you having?" *ggls* I've been known to have the waitress/waiter come back 2-3 times, until Daddy says, "I don't know what she wants, but I'll have...." It usually pressures me to just pick something.