Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
But take it easy. My slave loves it, and after an intense fuck, half her face swelled up. Ooops. Live and learn.

Still ID, these are beginners. Safe words are definitely good for beginners to have, no matter how well they think they know each other. The whole definition of being a beginner is that they don't know themselves, let alone each other.

I would have needed it when I was young and unspoiled
I agree they are beginners, and using a safe word is a good thing, but to tout it as a necessity like others have implied is a bit much.

As far as live and learn... yea agree there. I nearly dislocated my submissives jaw once while face slapping. She didn't use her safe word, it was just a change in her muscles, and look in her eyes that gave the "I think you dislocated or broke my jaw" kind of look that suggested I stop. She was fine after about 3 days of jaw exercises to keep things limber, up till then talking, eating and moving the jaw around was taken slow.