Well, as you probably already know threads like this are going to bring allot of opinions and when it comes to children, hard opinions...so here is mine.

I have two sons that are for the most part grown, 15 and 19. The 19 y.o. is out of the house at college and the 15 y.o. is, well 15 (LOL) interested in friends, girls and activities. For me, how I dealt with them growing up was simple, their needs came first over my wants, needs or desires. Let me take this time to qualify. I said needs not wants or whims. I committed to fill their needs as children and little humans put in my care for a simple reason, I chose them they did not choose me. I chose to be a father, I chose to bring them into the world and under my roof. Now, I’m sure at some point in this thread someone will argue “we don’t always choose our children, many are results of teenage pregnancy, or rape or whatever.” How ever it went down if we have children living under our care we chose that…period. (Hard Limit for me).

So to your situation, children sense company in the house and often feel something exciting is going on and they hate to miss out…in your case boy was he right! I don’t know the age of your child but I’m pretty sure you don’t want him skipping down the stairs to find mommy naked with a face full of…(well you get the picture). What this really means is you will have to plan your “connections” a little better. I realize it puts a damper on spontaneity but hey welcome to parenting…sorry to be tough here but that’s the choice you made. Don’t cry about what you are not getting, you have a great gift your child…the lifestyle can wait and if the people you are involved care for you they will understand your first commitment. If not, well they just don’t understand priorities very well.

Talk to the man in your life, if he cares about you he will care about your child. If he doesn’t don’t walk from the relationship RUN! My guess is if he is a true Dom committed to his sub, he will be exceptional to your child. Good luck substlscreams and remember…It’s only life!