Thanks J-go. My son is 4. Last night was the first time we had someone over to play, and I thought my son would fall asleep. Especially by 11pm! Normally he's asleep by 7 or 8 at the latest.

My MAN understands I have a son. He lives with us, and the fact I have a son was a serious point of discussion before my MAN moved in. Even regular (well not regular, but pretty run of the mill ordinary with biting and spanking) sex happens with my son asleep and often we use the basement and not the bedroom next to my son. (my house has an odd layout, privacy is difficult). My MAN is good to me, and to my son,he's stepping slowly and carefully into a parent role, so thats important that we keep it going well. As a Dom, he's also just very good at setting limits with my son, and yet not stepping on my parental toes.

Im all ears for peoples thoughts and opinions. A friend of mine has a dungeon in his basement, he's an openly gay custodial dad and that is even more of being careful than last time. An embittered ex lover called the police during a gay night at the dungeon and social services investigation ensued. Locks on the door to the dungeon saved him. My thoughts about his running a dungeon and publicizing it are mine, but to me there is a difference in some play and a whole party scene going on while the child is home. But maybe not. maybe I have to just play when my son is out. Im new, Im trying to figure it all out.