I am with J-Go here, keep it away from your child. My own son is 11 y.o. and I donīt even let him go online without me being present - call me old-fashioned, but I want him to learn about sex the old-fashioned way, by asking his Mom/Dad what he does not know, and later on by starting with holding hands and kissing, all that :-)

And only after that, he might find out about other roles and ways to play... all in its due time. What I would NOT want to see is him learning by watching gross things (and there ARE some gross things out there) on the web or by running in on a scene. If we play at home the bedroom door is locked and we donīt get overly loud so the sounds he may hear donīt differ much from regular lovemaking (please imagine what it would be like for a kid to hear Mommy scream her lungs out...); and if kiddie would come knocking, he would find no chains or anything when we open the door.

Moreover, if you keep your lifestyle away from your kid, the authorities will not have any means of taking your kid away from you because you might damage his "psychological development" or something like that...

Play loud or with other people only when your kid is not around. Yes it might be less often, but all the more precious for that...

Oh, and trust me on that, kids DO know when something exciting is going on! *laughs* My kid is usually asleep quickly after the lights are out, but if we have company (nothing kinky, mind), he keeps coming back at least twice. Hmmm grown-ups talking and laughing, what does he miss??

Best wishes and good luck.

Arria