Thanks for your replies, guys. In answer to your question, slavebrat, the gal in question meant that the chatroom was just full of online only fantasists, only looking for a cheap and quick thrill.

And in answer to your points, Tojo, I agree! But I think you're being a bit hard on the forum posters - there's plenty of disagreement about how subs/Dom(me)s should act, but I don't think I've seen any flame-posts, people getting snotty with each other. Maybe I've not looked hard enough. Heh.

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