trusting vanillas

[Cool Luke's Hand]

it was a choice between them or him even my parents and sister did the same although i now have contact with them again but under the condition that i visit them and providing they do not come into contact with Icehawk... they will not visit me or support me while he is in my life they wont even come to our wedding ...and all this was caused by my so-called friends and the man who had beat the shit out of me for 10 yrs held knives to my throat in front of my children called them little bastards and abandoned them for almost 2 yrs!!!

Even your parents reacted like this? Jesus, that's just ridiculous! I can understand being offended, but if they're willing to cut you out of their lives on what I can only understand is the say-so of these people who are not you, you should just fucking dump them. Run for the hills and never look back

[icey]

Even your parents reacted like this? Jesus, that's just ridiculous! I can understand being offended, but if they're willing to cut you out of their lives on what I can only understand is the say-so of these people who are not you, you should just fucking dump them. Run for the hills and never look back

i was very tempted, but i realised although its very hurtful and very misguided of them they genuinely believed they were doing it out of love and as people have always been used to me doing what they think best i think they assumed i would do as they said and were angry,hurt and confused when for the first time ever i didnt.

i couldnt have cut all ties because my children would have lost their grandparents and vice versa and that would have been cruel.

im glad some of you have been able to trust your friends and have had good experiences with it, you're lucky to have people who care so much for and about you