Edmundo, if I understand what you're saying, may I be the first to reply with "noooooo! Please come back to the chatroom!"
I (and others) really liked your gentle commentary on the room's events. You were never mocking and always respectful, and always funny too, though your puns scraped several barrels now and then. Nothing wrong with that, I say.
I think we've gone off topic here, but to return to your first point, I guess you're right - "who gives a damn?" If Mr Stridey Boots ignores the chatroom because he thinks it's too mild, then damn his eyes because he won't be missed. But you will, Edmundo. Take care mate, good luck to you and your wife.