Quote Originally Posted by just_annie View Post
The website itself would be easy enough to manage... the question is how to determine the abuse and the abuser. Which standards are we going by and is the "dom" really an abuser if the sub clearly states in the introduction "i'll do anything"?
Annie, I don't know if I'm "supposed" to be taken seriously or not, as I don't exist "in the lifestyle" as it is "defined" in the "box thinking" version. However, from my perspective, it is a Dom's responsibility to see to the safety of his sub, no matter what her state of mind when she comes to him. I believe that he is called to rise above those circumstances and protect her anyway, and I brook no violation of that intent. I speak, of course, only for myself, and thus for my expectation of others.

Gear