Yes, I feel we are very lucky. We trod on through most drama that others create. I've had some bunglers too.
Yes, we are still looking for triad member if it ever happens. But.. that doesn't look hopeful. Most who contact me about it have this grand illusion thing going on.. they're not thinking about it in a real situation.
So I don't mention it much. Still have not taken another online sub.. as if i take another she will have to know I expect it to mesh with real life. period.