Tina,

All the posts in response to this question are well-said and so true. Yes, he will have some sadness and have a hard time hearing it, but you have Already had a hard time of it, too.

You did NOT make a mistake. Be easier on yourself hon and just be honest and upfront. You have shown you are a caring person who is eloguent and clear in expressing herself.

Violet girl and I care for each other very much and I hope and pray that it will always be so, BUT we wrote in our collaring vows that if either one of us felt different at any time we could end it. So you must go with your truth.

We are here with you and if you need support we will be there. Good luck.

John