You're of course Welcome Tina. There are probably a bazillion ways to communicate to another person that *Hey this ain't workin' for me*. Tom's suggestion is certainly one way to accomplish what you need to for yourself. I think whatever is most comfortable for You and meets your needs is what's best.
Remember to Breathe Sweetie. I Know how hard this is.
The best to you Tina.
Respectfully~SidheWolf