Quote Originally Posted by Sir_Russell View Post
I really try to find out what hurts her the most and it is rarely physical so I punish her mind and that hurts the most.
Yep. I'm very familiar with that. He will ask me to do something that reminds me that I've disappointed Him. Mentally, it's a horrible feeling, which is His intention. It's not intended to be sexy or a turn-on for either of us.

That being said...it's only happened once. I find it very natural to be exactly what He wants - to strive to please Him in every possible way.