how many here actually enjoy being physically punished? (genuine punishments not play)
it constantly amazes me when subs say they go out of their way to be punished because its a turn on,
maybe its me but i just dont get it,how can you possibly be turned on.
i love pain and quite a lot of itbut it sure as hell doesnt feel the same for a punishment its a nasty hurt and im already feeling bad as it is, my mindset at that time or straight afterwards certainly isnt one of horniness.
and the Dom/mes who say they ''make up reasons to give punishments'' that i really dont get.