Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
it constantly amazes me when subs say they go out of their way to be punished because its a turn on,
maybe its me but i just dont get it,how can you possibly be turned on.

i love pain and quite a lot of it but it sure as hell doesnt feel the same for a punishment its a nasty hurt and im already feeling bad as it is, my mindset at that time or straight afterwards certainly isnt one of horniness.
ive wondered at this too.. when i know ive been bad, thats already ingrained in my head. what ever i punishment i get when ive been bad, even if i normally love it, it wouldnt be enjoyable because i know ive been bad and disappointed, angered, or upset my Dom.