Thank you all for the responses. Most of what folks are saying is what I suspected, however, being relatively new to this I say better to ask and be sure than be unintentionally rude or disprespectful. The gentleman in question is someone that has taken the time to respond to and mentor J and myself in many little ways, and I'd rather like to make a good impression.

To clear the specifics up, the meeting in question is not a play date or anything above and beyond getting together for dinner. (J and I are not so inclined to share each other in that fashion. ) All an all, I'm looking forward to a very comfortable situation with someone I'm sure will be wonderfully engaging company.

Again, thank you all for the responses! Just making sure I wasn't missing a double secret Dom handshake or some other subtlety of the Lifestyle! *g*