Well I suppose it’s time for the “Dom” to chime in on this thread. Perhaps clarify some statements and positions. First off Whippett, thank you for your caring, common sense advice, advice I think followed when any woman meets a man for the first time, advice I would and will give…again thank you. Oz…hmmm not sure when submitting would be appropriate in this situation, I’m going to assume you were kidding. We’ll discuss that this summer when we actually meet…looking forward to that.

As for the “date” Amber asked me about it when she found out she was going to a conference in the city Sir Russell lives near. One of her first responses was “Ohh I wonder if I could meet Sir Russell?” My response was “I think he would be a very interesting person to have dinner with, you should try to meet him.” That folks has really been my involvement in the whole deal. “We” really did not contact him Amber did and the logistics of the meeting have been between DTA and SR. It is (and has been) very unlikely that I am going to accompany her, so she will be on her own…but Amber is a big girl with real life experiences that frankly I trust. I know she is savvy enough to not put herself in a situation that she does not want to be in…If she decides she wants to be in a situation, well me being the biggest baddest Dom in the world would not change that.

From what I have read of his comments and advice posted on the forum, I am sure Sir Russell is, and will be a complete gentleman. But at the end of the day Whippett is correct, Amber won’t know till she meets him. As for me if I was in Amber’s shoes I’d be calling Sir Russell myself…hope she has a great time.

J-Go