hmmmmmm, I just realized the proof in mine and ambers case will be in the meeting. Afterwards she can answer if I am as I appear to be and if I am a risk to subbies everywhere. LOL, this still won't prove that meeting anyone for the first time is safe or not.

Oh as an aside here I have given J-Go my full name driver's license # current address, new address, current phone # and new phone #. To cross reference a thread on trust I guess I fall into I get a feel for who I can trust and then I do till there is proof that it was a mistake.

I also agree that all that info should indeed be given to both Dom and sub that are meeting for an intro that may lead to future a future session. Sadly for me that isn't going to happen and isn't the reason for this meet at all.

I think I have found kindred spirits in both amber and J-Go and will come away from our meetings with new wonderful friends.

Oh I as a geezer thank all of you that assumed I would be able to mmmmm seduce the lovely intelligent amber but her own code of honor would never allow that.