Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
I suggest you show him this post. It's is honest, eloquent and to the point. You will make him sad no matter what you do. It's a fact of life. But remember. It's you that's the important one for you. I know a subbie brain doesn't work that way, but you'll just have to be your own master and force yourself to believe it if you want to end this with your sanity intact.

Good luck, and you'll always have friends here.
Right on Tom--I'm impressed!