How to find a master?

[Ozme52]

I just wanted to say that, that's my and my slave's experience too. I've only met sad desperate people.... but maybe it's a Stockholm specific thing.

I'd third that emotion.
I've been to munches in a few different places, and even in a couple of countries. Much like Gemmy mentioned, most there (in my opinion) were there to make a show of it - and, perhaps in some way, themselves...
To each their own, for sure.
But I choose to not make that my own, nor would it be my first suggestion on where to find a Dom or sub.

Just one man's experienced take on things.

I have no first hand experience of 'munches', & nor do I ever plan to. Not that there's ever likely to be any within a few thousand miles of here!

I've heard from many people though, that clubs, munches & dating sites are 'largely for the people who can't get a date anywhere else. '

For instance, if you go into a bar looking for a long-term fulfilling relationship, you'll probably be disappointed.

IMO, any Dom (or decent guy) who's worthwhile doesn't need to advertise.

Of course on the up side- there's always exceptions, & most of us only need one partner.

Maybe it's just me.... bringing the best out in the people around me.