I am actually in Canada. There are a number of people here from various parts of Europe, so hopefully they will stop by this thread eventually.

I met my o/l Dom here, in the chatroom. We never met in real life as geography was a serious barrier. I met my Master (who I live with) on an online dating site geared specifically towards BDSM. You post a profile, read other people's, and email who is interesting. We clicked really fast, and met in person a couple of days later. There are a number of threads on here that discuss safety when meeting in real life, which are a worthwhile read if you consider doing this.

I don't know what your local scene is life, but there are always local munches and groups as well. Usually a Google search will turn these up.