If I may make a comment.....

This is a great idea IMO- I don't believe I or any Dom can 'train' someone to be a submissive. A D/s relationship is a special bond between two people, who make their own rules.

I can talk to a new sub, ask questions & listen to her thoughts- however, so can other subs. It makes perfect sense for new girls to talk to & listen to other subs.

They know just as much about it as any Dom, & are much less likely to be blowing their own trumpets, or wanting a good time before you're ready.