Can I have it all?

[Ozme52]

Hi I am a beautiful 33Y old independent Lady with a submissive nature that is driving me insane. I am tired of going outside of my relationships to get sexually satisified. Is it possible to have a normal relationship with respect and then ask to be treated like a worthless slut in the bedroom..maybe I'm dreaming but that is what I'm seaching for...
Any thoughts......

Sure, but more likely a worthwhile slut.

That wouldn't be so much a D/s relationship as I think it would be considered a relationship with some extra kinky perks. From the word of mouth of some of my friends who are just into kinky perks of sex, you can have it all.
It would of course depend on how your partner(s) felt about it and communication is key, but there's nothing wrong with wanting to be a slut in the bedroom and have a normal vanilla relationship outside of it.

And bella, why shouldn't you be respected but still submissive outside of the bedroom. Just like any hierarchal relationship, such as work, your input is valued and considered but ultimately the 'boss' makes the final decision.

You can be 24/7 and very submissive but still respected, without any doubt who is in charge.