Quote Originally Posted by Alessa View Post
Hello! My name is Alessa, I am 21 and a noob as it were to the bdsm scene.

Firstly, what does r/l mean?

And secondly, because I am new I am not really all that up to snuff with protocol or certain daily things a submissive does so if anyone can give me any pointers, it would be much appreciated.
r/l is real life...as opposed to o/l online.
As for daily things...it all depends on you and your Master/Mistress if you have one, or the one you will find. Figure out what you like and go from there.

Check out the rest of the forums there is so much info on here it can be a little overwhelming. Take your time to explore. Check out the chat room...don't be shy no one will bite...or maybe they will. *grins*

Don't be afaid to pm (private message) any one of us or any one of the moderators. we are all here to learn and grow.

Welcome!

Shy