r/l is real life...as opposed to o/l online.
As for daily things...it all depends on you and your Master/Mistress if you have one, or the one you will find. Figure out what you like and go from there.
Check out the rest of the forums there is so much info on here it can be a little overwhelming. Take your time to explore. Check out the chat room...don't be shy no one will bite...or maybe they will. *grins*
Don't be afaid to pm (private message) any one of us or any one of the moderators. we are all here to learn and grow.
Welcome!
Shy
*grins*
Look at you bein' all "not shy" and stuff!! Good for you, sweetie!!!
and absolutely, denuseri, i'd forgotten all about the moderators!! it's their jobs to guide ALL of us, and Alessa, if THEY can't help, they can find someone who can!