"progress"

[Ozme52]

..........shut down your computer, stand-up, strip, and get your ass in the bedroom?

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..........shut down your computer, stand-up, strip, and get your ass in the bedroom?

Stop it you two, (or Oz mostly), go rent a room, or a condo or something like that on the beach



Sorry I interrupted your question Thrasher, I can't answer it though. I am still too new to D/s and the dynamics of relationships. I do think about that as well though. I am interested in hearing more responses.

[Ownedfyre (mm1)]

Oz and jeanne. Thank you both for your input! Oz..lol
But jeanne I completely respect your point of view and appreciate it, (as I am Thrasher's sub), and hope that we can work toward the level you are at now with Oz. It is nice to know that there are those who find the comfort of everyday life within the 'restraints' (if you will) of being D/s as well. There is that point when you wonder, "Will this be all, or will we we be able to continue and offer each other more?" and I believe wholeheartedly that I have so much more to learn from Him and to offer Him in return. The great thing about it is, you don't have to rush it. I am trying hard to work on my patience! But I believe that as He learns, I benefit and learn as well. You are a lucky lady! I wish you both all the best this week. Enjoy!!!

[Tojo]

Speaking for myself, there's always more. I've known lisa for almost 2 1/2 years & am still learning about her.

Don't forget people change all the time too, as do wants & desires- so a relationship has to accommodate all that.

Perhaps if I had a different girl, I'd get bored- perhaps there wouldn't be enough challenge for me. All I know is there's always something.....

Part of that is that she's one hell of a challenge- she keeps me on my toes & I spend huge amounts of time just trying to get her to do things she doesn't want to do.

That's just the way I like it

I don't know how long you guys have been together, but do you know everything there is to know about her, Thrasher? That alone can take a lifetime.

[Polaris]

I don't think that this is a journey that ever stops. For me, in the beginning it was very much spontaneous explosions of new and exciting things -- naturally energy, and naturally an urge to explore further. At some point things settled down a little. Then, after a while, they settled down even more. I settled in, so to speak, and stopped to think about a great many things that had been unthinkable a year or two ago. The fact that things settle doesn't mean, however, that the energy just goes poof. It just changes. Growth may be more subtle, less spectacular and less spontaneous, but I believe steadily taking place nonetheless. You never stop to learn -- and there is SO much to explore. I mean, seriously