I Promised to post this for a Friend
so here it goes

Talking about abuse not from a Submissive view but from a Dom's View
i met a nice guy about 1 Year ago,On Another Dutch site, he's been a Member for a while
(i promised not to mention his name)
you can understand why
its nothing to share so easy among People

He's a been a Dominant male for more than 30 years
But the Abuse in his yought at the age of 3 until his 9th year
has left him with a really big scar that wont go away so easy
he struggles with it for years now
Until he met this wonderfull couple on the Board
a Master and His Sub a Few months back
"she"helped him with dealing with the past and Learned him that it is nothing to be ashamed

of "He"(the master) has become a really good Friend of him
like i said he is a Dominant male and Never laid one finger on a Submissive
in his entire live
neither had Sex with a person after his abuse
The fear that he has of hurting people is so abnormal big
That he lives a Soletary live From the day of his abuse
to afraid to "Hurt" a Submissive woman
until the last time i spoke with him
he's become a really good Friend on mine in the last Year
After telling about some posts made here
Hes Member here too and he read every single post there is about "The Lifestyle"
But Never posts in it

he agreed that i told his story too (he speaks English worse than me )
Cant inmagine that

So Friend as Promised here it is
Respect to you !!