~pokes jeanne~ You're right here, sweetie. But if I poke you again, in just the right place, you might be over there again. Unless he gets to you first. Then I'll just watch him get you all lost.

Quote Originally Posted by TomOfSweden View Post
Bondage is just one of those fetishes I don't get. But I indulge my slave occasionally. I'm a giver.
That Tom- he's damned near perfect, I say.

Well, damned near something.

Bondage with or without sex, or sex with or without bondage, is only as good as the mind behind it ('it' being sex and/or bondage).

Or on top. Or beside. Or underneath. But I digress. It's jeanne's "influence". Blame her.

Anyway, whatever the act, kink-related or no, without that passionate, intense, power-exchanging, twistedly perverted mindset at work, it's just...well, it's not that much- like whipped cream, but without the whipped (borrowing Daes' food thought there).

So, my answer to the question...

"(do) you like sex, with bondage, and also if you prefer it over bondage or the other way around?"

...is "yes, but no". Or "no, but yes". Or maybe even "yes and yes, but it will depend on certain qualifiers being part of the bondage mix."

I'm confusing myself now. But...I'm bound to figure it out soon enough.

(That groaner was for you, Oz, oh Purveyor of Puns)