Quote Originally Posted by sisterhoney61 {RW} View Post
I agree with lily here. I call myself a submissive, though I have been a slave in the past. And Master and I often do roleplaying where He is Daddy and I am His babygirl. I believe as gem does, that W/we still do fall into categories, even when W/we are all different. It is a human need to put labels and names to things, people, groups, etc. Humans love categorizing everything. Master and I pick and choose what W/we want and need from the varieties that are expressed within BDSM. Sometimes I seem to be a slave, other times a submissive, other times a little girl, etc. It's been the best way for U/us to live and grow within the lifestyle.
hehehe perfect

Regardless how we take what we take it's M/s to us or D/s to them or, or, or

At the end of the day, i think, for me anything outside of vanilla missionary is BDSM and BDSM is all about being able to finally define your own piece without shame for wanting it, to truly be open to another

If what makes your world work is..."xyz" definition or not; likely someone else will feel the same and a greater number will feel 'different' lol

Isn't it great that we can all have One interest, a common thought, and be all thinking differently