Quote Originally Posted by lily27 View Post
From an outside perspective, I would personally classify little girls as its own category, someplace between submissive and slave.

A little girl would have very little power, and very little say. Daddy makes all the final decisions. So to me, this would be *more* than a sub.

However, a slave's only focus should be in pleasing her Master, whereas a little girl certainly does not always have that focus.
Hey, lily! I totally agree with you. We've been discussing it some more, and I've agreed that being a little girl isn't too far from being a slave. Therefore, the leap isn't quite as great as I'd thought. I just hadn't ever run into anyone I'd be willing to give that amount of control to because, honestly, I hadn't ever run into anyone who actually wanted that amount of control....or maybe they did want the control but didn't want the responsibility that comes with it, in which case hell would have to freeze over....*grins* Daddy sees me as a woman child....a mixture of a little girl and a woman able to take a beating...or give one. He's very interested in seeing me spank someone...not him, of course. *ggls* Certainly, he'll spoil me, but the focus will always be on making Daddy/Master happy....and if it isn't, that's where discipline comes in. Woo hoo!!! lol

Quote Originally Posted by mastersgem View Post
Personally, and only personally, I would say 'little girls' are not slaves (if there is such a real definition of one) as they are needing total caring for and are of a bratty attention needing type (yes we are all different, none of us have a 'type' I know), and defiant if that attention is not received.

A slave (by LOOSE translation) is completely submissive and defies nothing her Master hands down, so I would (personally) see them as their own....(dare I say it) category (even though none of us fit any category in BDSM).
I fail to see how needing total caring for does not make one a slave. A slave is owned property. If you own a car, it does not take care of itself. You are responsible for the care and maintenance, i.e. gas (food), oil (check-ups), tires (clothes and shoes), etc. Daddy has no qualms about taking care of his property. To him, it allows his slave to focus on her main responsibility which is to please him.

I agree, though, that a little girl isn't *quite* a slave, but it's not too far off for me to be taken down that road. As far as bratty behavior, he doesn't mind a bit. It lets him know I need something (a spanking more than likely), and he is always willing to oblige with some discipline when needed. Granted, it may be more than I bargained for...*ggls*

I'm just so excited that Daddy found me and is genuinely attracted by what many have considered undesirable. He doesn't want 24/7 anything and sees me as a perfect mixture of kink/vanilla, little girl/slave, lady of the house/Mistress. I see him as someone I can trust to treat me with respect at all times, love me for who I am, be responsible and take care of things so that all I have to worry my pretty little head about is how to please him....or how to provoke him into taking a break from the office. *eg*