A bit late to the punch, but whatever...

My Dom and I have "traded rolls" for a day, after he noted that sometimes, just for a moment, I grab control and shake it by the throat.

What I found is that I CAN dom, and I can do it convincingly... but I just don't enjoy it.

The moments when I "grab control" aren't about control as much as they are to probe a response from Him. I don't do "bad" things or anything, I just make my presence very known in a "I know you need me, too" kind of way.

I am dominating in my outside life. I am actually a very charismatic and powerful person, but I have no desire to dominate.

Just because you can doesn't mean you should...