Dom for a Day

[Kitten4DADDY]

Great Question!!!

I have to say I am quite wicked, and have very severe thoughts when in the mood strikes...It is usually severe fantasies for myself that I reverse the role on. Does that make sense?

We have played the switch game a time or two and he always ends up topping from the bottom, so to speak. It does get frustrating at times. I will plan and try to execute the plan, all this with his fantasies in mind, but he eventually will turn it around on me and punish me for "over stepping" my bounds. LOL

Last time this took place it was very intense. I did egg him on quite a bit, but what good is it being a Dom for a day if I cannot enjoy all the benefits? It seems to me that his fantasy of being on bottom, is better left that way. He cannot take what he dishes out.

I have a lot of limits of what I can do to him as a Dom as it is, I think it is more the fact he just wants a break from being in control. Does anyone else go through this?

I never really want to be dom for a day or any amount of time, it has taken me years to work my way up to it. I have to psych myself up for several days in advance to take on this task, because it just isn't in me.

I think I would do better being more Dominant over another female (sub) with my hubby, than trying to be dominant over hubby himself. It is a severe turn off trying to dominate some one who is bigger, stronger, and definitely more dominate by nature. I try reading stories and all to get myself in the right frame of mind for it, and like I stated previously, we have tried it a time or two. Maybe I am just so horrible at it, that he just takes the reigns from me because I am failing miserably. I really hate to disappoint him in any area and have given it a lot of effort, just to please him, but alas it seems as if I am doomed in that area of pleasing him...