Quote Originally Posted by BarYen View Post
Thanks a lot to all of you... I'll go back and do that little individual thanks thing soon...

one remaining question: do BDSM couples have regular couple fights? yelling, screaming, negotiating?
Vanilla or lifestyle, that's about the level of communication. If you talk about issues before they become irritants, then there is no screaming or yelling and the fights, per se, are few and far between.

Because lifestyle promotes communication, perhaps not.

Negotiating is the result of better communication... so it's on the other side of the continuum, imo, from the fighting question.