Quote Originally Posted by romanticx View Post
i think looking for men with dominent qualities can be diffucult, i think someone in the last one about subs someone said they display some qualities of women who end up in abusive relationships i think thats true also when trying to spot a dominent man theres a fine live between dominence and abuse i think the thing that makes it different is that there has to be respect for each other a deep loving respect.
Finding the right Dom is not much different from finding the right sub. We are all different and react differently to each situation. I try to learn what my sub wants and needs and then if she begns to act up try to understand why. if I can figure that out then generally I know how to handle the situation without making her feel misundertood and not appreciated.