Its a major trigger for me...so if I would agree to have that done to me, it would have to be with someone I feel safe with and whom I trust to be "gentle", it certainly couldn't be used as discipline for myself without negative consequences and or on a regular basis.


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It doesn't even have to be a real slap. Something symbolic, my hand cupping her chin, extending my fingertips and regrabbing her chin including the side of the cheek, has all the intent of a slap, gets the same emotional reaction, and establishes her submission... when something has occurred that garners a moment of rebellion.
That could work nicely, .