Wise words indeed by Raven Shadowborne and thank you MacGuffin as well for your insights. I wish i had seen this when i first signed started chatting here, because that "fresh meat" effect almost drove me away a few times.

Doms who feel they need to insult me as being not a "true submissive" make me laugh now, but when i first started it was almost painful to hear that as i muddled through what submission meant to me. Now, i can laugh it off, and realize that someone who would throw that out there isn't the kind of "Dom" i am looking for. For me at least, someone who feels they have to use those type of insults to get respect and submission doesn't deserve it.