Quote Originally Posted by cadence View Post
My Master treats me badly, calls me very nasty names, he humiliates me in whatever way he can,

but I will fully say that he respects me and cares for me very much.

It becomes abuse when the other person does not consent to this type of play.
What if the person is not in the mind set to be aware this is abuse?

I don't understand how someone can treat someone "very badly," call them "very nasty names," and "humiliates" them in any way possible cares for or in any way respects them....

I truly don't understand.

Just because someone consents to something doesn't mean it's not abuse. A small child may consent to a beating because it's the only thing they know, same for an adult.



P.S. Extreme physical and/or mental harm is not a kink or fetish in my opinion. It's abuse.