The question, Love Of My Life, is NOT whether a submissive can or can not do that, but can it be done to a total control freak? Not every Dom is a control freak, but you, Beloved, most certainly are. (Others will note... I am absolutely confident that he will not deny this fact, else I would not say it.)

Then again, would you trust ME to keep us from getting hurt if you were to lose control?

Love you.
-lucky lucky kitten