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lucy Analyze this? 10-16-2008, 04:29 AM
samm Isn't it a fairly simple... 10-16-2008, 07:31 AM
sadiej That is a question that I... 10-16-2008, 07:46 AM
MissConfused sadie said it exactly as I... 10-16-2008, 10:51 AM
lucy Thanks to all who replied for... 10-16-2008, 12:42 PM
Flaming_Redhead You should reflect on why it... 10-16-2008, 08:10 AM
Flaming_Redhead LOL! You might as well ask... 10-16-2008, 01:29 PM
lucy thanks a lot :D (i do know... 10-16-2008, 01:58 PM
Flaming_Redhead SHHHHHHHHHHHH! *whispers* I... 10-17-2008, 11:13 AM
Hime It's an important thing for... 10-18-2008, 09:15 PM
leah06 I'm not sure that these... 10-18-2008, 10:27 PM
Veridical These kind of questions are... 10-19-2008, 12:59 PM
thepast I don't actually think it's a... 10-19-2008, 05:55 PM
Mastrovenice Knowledge is power, and to... 10-20-2008, 01:40 AM
MissConfused Mastrovenice you said... 10-20-2008, 11:25 AM
his_girl_l i have been wondering this... 10-22-2008, 12:35 AM
QuietMaster You are you because you are... 10-22-2008, 09:52 PM
lucy Thanks a lot, it wasn't... 10-23-2008, 12:28 AM
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    Isn't it a fairly simple question?
    Why do I seek submission? Because it turns me on. If I wouldn't be arroused by submitting and all the things involved, I probably wouldn't do it at all. Why do you think it is important to discuss between D and s what the sub is willing and not willing to do? He/She will not easily do those things that don't turn them on in any way. For me it's as simple as that.

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    That is a question that I have poneder for a long time. I found that I asked it of myself more when I was denying my true nature as that of a submissive. The more I fought the yearing and desire to reliquish control, the more out balance I feel.

    I seek submission, to be free. Every other area of my life, I am in control.. always in charge. Giving that power and placing myself in the hands of my Master gives me the opportunity to let go that I would experience otherwise.

    It is a thrill and a terror. The rush of feeling his power over mine. His will instead of my own.

    I have found the answer to this question does not rest in my "logical mind"... it is answered with my submissive soul.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sadiej View Post
    That is a question that I have poneder for a long time. I found that I asked it of myself more when I was denying my true nature as that of a submissive. The more I fought the yearing and desire to reliquish control, the more out balance I feel.

    I seek submission, to be free. Every other area of my life, I am in control.. always in charge. Giving that power and placing myself in the hands of my Master gives me the opportunity to let go that I would experience otherwise.

    It is a thrill and a terror. The rush of feeling his power over mine. His will instead of my own.

    I have found the answer to this question does not rest in my "logical mind"... it is answered with my submissive soul.
    sadie said it exactly as I feel
    I want to release all control of myself
    To explore my fantasy knowing someone else is doing it for me

    As you know my hubby has no interest in BDSM so I have been serving a Master online
    His commands are something I would not have done except I find the results are SO fulfilling, as he said I "have a glow afterwards" and he is right
    So I overcome my fears and trepidations and surrender myself to the command
    Isn't it what we all do?

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    Thanks to all who replied for their input. However, i obviously got my question completely wrong (and misunderstood Mistress Kat's questions). My apologies

    I know why i want to submit, why i am seeking submission. Answering those questions wasn't too easy, but a necessary step to go ahead. That wasn't my question.

    What i wanted to ask was: Why should i think about "why am i a submissive"? I was talking about the reasons for my "submissiveness", not the reasons for my submission, which is a result of that submissiveness.

    (Btw: Do gays think about why they are gay? Do heterosexuals ask themselves why they are hetero? Should they?)

    oh my, i don't think i did a better job this time than in my first post.
    Last edited by lucy; 10-16-2008 at 12:48 PM. Reason: further elaborating

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