Mistress Kat has posted a task in the tasking exchange section. And a very nice one it is, i will definitely try that one.

However, one sentence got my attention (the one in red)
Quote Originally Posted by SubChaser View Post
Think about yourself, your submissive nature. Why do you seek submission, what turns you on about it, do you serve a Mistress or Master, what about Her/Him strikes your desires so deeply. If you are not owned, who are you, what do you seek. How do you seek submission in your daily life....
Enjoy..............Mistress Kat
Now those are all questions i ask myself over and over (except the red one). Maybe i should do it the way Mistress Kat proposes, that would probably yield better results.

But why should i reflect about why i seek submission, i.e. why am i a submissive? Does knowing why make me a better submissive? Does it change anything? What if it's in my genes? What if the answer is something i never wanted to know?

I thought about why i am submissive right up to the moment when i finally acknowledged my submissiveness to myself. And that was it, since then that question is kind of beyond me (i never found out, of course)

Could it be that submissives are asking themselves just too many questions? Is there too much psychology and analyzing? Is it just female submissives? (i would really like to hear some male subs' opinion here)