Polyamorous or just not sure?

[blythe spirit]

another one of my pet communication peeves: "don't ask don't tell." I've played with that one before and it's always something that seems like a good idea at the time but always ends up biting someone in the proverbial ass.

Thoughts?

Ha! Too many times in the "vanilla" world and I suppose this can apply to this lifestyle as well, women/men close their eyes for fear of losing their SOs. They have their reasoning, of course. "What I don't know don't hurt." However, when you care about someone, don't you know in your heart whats happening?

Guess, I just like to ask too many questions to live by the "don't ask, don't tell" creed. lol And I'll be damned if I'd close my eyes to anything. *thinks* I'm a wee bit possessive, huh? *giggles