People are complex beings, we adapt our interaction to people whom we are with, what our current mood is...etc. I think its impossible to get to know anyone in any significant measure from a chat or two, as in real life it takes time...so in that regard some may have only seen one side of me. I never lied or deceived anyone, and I think that has backfired. Call me naive, but I was shocked how many people invent whole personas for on-line purposes....I find it repulsive.