It is absolutely not necessary, but many do it. But those who do it are usually single and approach it as studying a craft. Its also possible to ask a more experienced Dom for mentoring or at least for advice and help when learning technicalities (such as bondage, caning technique...). There are also workshops, conventions and there are many online resources (such as this forum) available.

Everyone is different and we all have our path to follow!

Your sir can get education many different ways, be open with each other, take care to constantly learn and you two will be good (judging by the way you sound). Don't let other people cause you upset with what they think is the "proper" way, you and Sir know what feels right for the two of you.

Welcome to the Library


Adriana

p.s. this thread might be of help http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=17053